A mother is special.
She's as soft and graceful as a butterfly, yet as strong and courageous as a grizzly bear. Her heart is large enough to hold everyone's pain and joy. Her hands are always gentle and soothing. Her arms are always warm and tender. She works hard to make a home feel like home, and she strives to make life pleasant and comfortable for those she loves.
She never fails to go that extra mile to make the holidays happy and memorable. Her job is the most difficult and demanding ever known to any human being, yet she's fully dedicated to the task. She's always there for her family, guiding them and keeping them safe from harm. She owns a magical way to raise spirits and make everything feel better. And her sympathy, unselfishness and forgiveness are unending.
All that anyone is or could ever hope to be can be attributed to a mother. She instills the teachings that will last a lifetime. She sows the seeds of virtue and morality, and in the process, she opens up love and vast horizons.
She's always watching and hoping that her children's goals will have meaning. She always listens and tries to understand even when it's difficult to do so. She's a true friend in every sense of the word.
She's noble and sublime, and holds all the beauty of a golden day, yet even during the storms, she always shines bright like an evening star. Her name should be honored well, for she's the closest thing to God on earth.
The Quran 1. "We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents; in pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth" (46:15). 2. "Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: `My Lord! bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood' "(17:23-24). 3. "We have enjoined on man and woman kindness to parents; but if they (either of them) strive (to force) thee to join with Me anything of which thou hast no knowledge, obey them not'" (29:8). 4. "We have enjoined on man and woman (to be good) to his/her parents; show gratitude to Me and to thy parents; to Me is (thy final) Goal. If they (parents) strive to make thee join in worship with Me things of which thou hast no knowledge, obey them not; yet bear them company in this life with justice (and consideration) and follow the way of those who turn to Me (in love)" (31:14-15).
Love your mother
And always Remember.. in Islam.. everyday is a mothers day.. so when you wake up each day, hold your mother, give her a Red Rose. Express your love to her and wish her...A VERY HAPPY MOTHER'S Day!
posted by Sis Ammatullah Rabiah Bint ul Islam. Moderator of Islam_peace_and_understanding Read this.... 1. When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you. you thanked her by crying all the night.
2. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.You thanked her by running away when she called.
3. When you were 3 years old, she made all your mealswith love. You thanked her by tossing your plate onthe floor.
4. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons. You thanked her by coloring the dinning roomtable. 5. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays. You thanked her by looping into the nearestpile of mud. 6. When you were 6 years old, she walked you into school. You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING". 7. When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball. You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor window. 8. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an icecream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap. 9. When you were 9 years old, she paid for pianolessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to practice it. 10. When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day,from soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party afteranother. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back. 11. When you were 11 years old, she took you and yourfriends to the movies. You thanked her by asking to sit in the different row. 12. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not towatch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house. 13. When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming. You thanked her by telling her she had no taste. 14. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter. 15. When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked. 16. When you were 16, she taught you how to drove her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could. 17. When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night. 18. When you were 18, she cried at your school graduation. You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn. 19. When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of you friends. 20. When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying "It's none of your business". 21. When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future. You thanked her by saying "I don't want to be like you". 22. When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation. You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe. 23. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment. You thanked her by telling your friend it was ugly. 24. When you were 24, she met your fianc and asked about your plans for the future. You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh- ther, please!" 25. When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country. 26. When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You thanked by telling her, "Things are different now." 27. When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday. You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now." 28. When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children. 29. And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did, came crashing down like thunder on your heart. IF SHE' S STILL AROUND, NEVER FORGET TO LOVE HER MORE THAN EVER.AND IF SHE' S NOT,REMEMBER HER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE The Hadith 1. The Prophet Muhammad said, may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him: Your Heaven lies under the feet of your mother (Ahmad, Nasai). 2. A man came to the Prophet and said, `O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship? The Prophet said: Your mother. The man said, `Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man further asked, `Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your mother. The man asked again, `Then who?' The Prophet said: Then your father. (Bukhari, Muslim). 3. Abu Usaid Saidi said: We were once sitting with Rasulullah when a man from the tribe of Salmah came and said to him: O Messenger of Allah! do my parents have rights over me even after they have died? And Rasulullah said: Yes. You must pray to Allah to bless them with His Forgiveness and Mercy, fulfill the promises they made to anyone, and respect their relations and their friends (Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah). 4. Abdullah ibn Amr related that the Messenger of Allah said: The major sins are to believe that Allah has partners, to disobey one's parents, to commit murder, and to bear false witness (Bukhari, Muslim). 5. It is narrated by Asma bint Abu Bakr that during the treaty of Hudaibiyah, her mother, who was then pagan, came to see her from Makkah. Asma informed the Messenger of Allah of her arrival and also that she needed help. He said: Be good to your mother (Bukhari, Muslim).
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